What are you supposed to do then? Sulk it out within yourself or press the pause button and say, "hey listen, man, you hurt me big time!"
What if, even then he doesn't get it? What if he cannot see the hurt but instead feel that you are over reacting and he goes on as if, again, nothing had happened?
And, you start wondering, 'Am i the crazy one here?' 'Am i really seeing too much into a seemingly non essential matter?'
But the hurt... it's still there simmering and ready to flare up any moment!
11.02.2022